Well, it’s not well, really. It’s sick.

I suppose it’s human nature for people to do a little staring at people who look different than the usual. Whether you’re sitting in a wheelchair or have some visible evidence of your disability, there will always be people who stare. At one time I thought people had figured out how rude and unkind it is, but it still happens.

If you’re reading this and are a starer, I have a suggestion for you. Talk to the person you feel like staring at. It seems to me that staring has a lot to do with objectification, another version of what happens when you look at an attractive person. You indulge in this rude behavior because you don’t think of the object of your stare as a person. Look him or her in the eye. Be polite and open.

Parents, teach your children not to stare. My disability is somewhat hidden, but I’ve noticed when out and about with clients that children are far more prone to stare. Again, I think it’s human nature to stare, but it’s part of human nature meant to be overcome with maturity and training. It’s an important life skill for children to be at ease talking to people with disabilities, so encourage talking rather than staring.

I suppose that it is my point that staring reveals immaturity. To be a mature and healthy person, staring should be a thing you leave behind.

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